Change is simply a fact of life.  There is nothing that can be done about it.  While some changes are expected, the ones you plan for or those you work towards, others come unbidden and strike when we least expect them.  It’s those unexpected changes that I find the hardest to deal with most often.  I know you’ve probably heard the phrase, ’embrace the change’, but let’s face it, sometimes you just have to work through your feelings before you can even begin to adapt much less embrace a life change.  Let me tell you about that sweet spot where all the feelings and fears and the expectations that went unmet fade away.  That beautiful place where you don’t necessarily embrace the change you went through, but you embrace the new place life has brought you to.

I went through a giant life change around 10 months ago.  On that day everything that I expected for my future was suddenly different.  It took me a long time to come to terms with that.  But now, I am able to embrace the new opportunities life has thrown my way.  I am enjoying building deeper friendships and spending better time with my kids.  I am embracing this new stage of life and whatever it has to throw at me.

God works all things for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).  I promise you, that scripture applies to unexpected changes as well.

 

Godspeed,

Mollie  <3

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SAFE

What does that word mean to you?  The meaning has changed for me recently.  If you had asked me a year ago what it meant to be safe I would have undoubtedly thought of the person who’s arms I felt safe in.  He was my safe place.  But that is one of those fairytale kind of fallacies we tell ourselves or that we are taught when we are growing up.  Even if I found my perfect guy tomorrow, there would not be true safety and security in that relationship.  Now when most people think of safety they think of physical safety.  That’s not what I’m referring to here.  When I think of safety I think of having the safety to fall down and knowing that it’s ok.  Being secure in the fact that I am loved, even when I fail.  Having the safety to be truly and authentically me and know that I am loved completely and unconditionally.  Knowing that there is one place I can go, one relationship I can cling to, and find all the security I need therein.  As a friend said today during our weekly Bible study time, “People are broken.”  That applies to all people.  Even the people who love you the most can make you feel insecure in your own skin.  People will fail you.  That is about as clear a fact as they come.  But God never will.  He is everything you need.  I urge you to fall into Him for your safety and security.  Fall into Him to see yourself clearly.  Fall into Him to feel the pull of unconditional love.

 

Godspeed,

Mollie <3

 

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I never thought I had control issues until I had kids.  And still it wasn’t until fairly recently that I recognized that need for control within myself.  Let me tell you a little bit about my control issues.  I have two little boys that are all boy.  Which means they are loud and  rambunctious and never ever stop and fight constantly, because that’s what brothers do.  I however am an introvert by nature and I like quiet.  There is a constant struggle where I am trying to get them to sit down and be quiet for a minute, which never works.  You know what I have found that works?  Letting go of that control.  When I let go and just let them be and try to embrace the loud craziness of having boys, that’s when the peace seeps in.

God will sit back and watch us as we try to control every aspect of our lives.  He will stand by and whisper in our ears and wait.  It’s not until we let go of that control.  Until we let go of the very tight grip we have on everything in our life in an effort to get everything just how we want it.  Until we surrender.  It’s not until then that God comes in and moves in our situations and brings peace along with Him.  It’s in that moment, in that sigh of relief that we often realize that we were the only thing standing in the way of our own peace.

 

Godspeed,

Mollie  <3

 

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I’m on day three of being snowed in, with no discernable end in sight.  Seven months ago I went through an awful breakup.  I’m a stay at home mom.  All of these things create this feeling that I don’t really have any connection to people outside my house.  There has been a new nagging feeling that has just popped up in the last week or so that I can’t trust people.  Specifically people who know my ex. Although I don’t know why he would care about anything I say or do at this point, still I have this nagging feeling that people go back and tell him everything I say to them.

But a louder voice comes in and reminds me that the enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10).  The devil wants to destroy our connections to other believers.  He wants to isolate us so that his voice is the loudest one, and the only one we can hear.  My God created me to be in community.  To connect with His children.  To connect with His lost children.  I believe in God ordained meetings and that soul connections are often forged in the quiet places of life where they are least expected and when you aren’t looking for them.  The next time the devil is telling you that you are all alone, you just tell him who you belong to and that you are never alone.

 

Godspeed,

Mollie <3

 

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Show me the joy!

Take me to the deepest darkest parts of your life and I’ll bet there are moments of unspeakable joy to be found there.  Show me yours and I’ll show you mine.  But then I already did show you mine.  Everything I’ve written these last six months has been dripping with my pain.  I laid it all out there for you to see.  The good the bad and the ugly.  In that, in the writing of my story, there was joy.  The joy of finding the inner strength to be vulnerable and transparent.  The joy of hearing you all say thank you and me too.  The joy found in the act of being obedient to the work God called me too.  He called me to write the hard things of life.  The joy of finishing something that was so very hard to do.  My 31 Days series is the piece of writing I am most proud of.  I even wrote about finding joy in the midst of my brokenness.  There is joy to be found if you will just open yourself up to it.

So, go ahead, show me the joy!

–UPDATE–

I want to say a heartfelt thank you to each of you that walked alongside me during these last six months.  It has been my honor to share my story with you as I walked through a painful season of life.  I would like to report that two people this week have asked me how my wedding plans are going.  The fact that I have not fallen to pieces over that simple question gives me hope that maybe I have reached the other side of the pain.  The enemy has been fighting hard this week to keep me bound by pain, but joy has  prevailed.  I love you, each and every one of you!

Godspeed,

Mollie <3

 

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I crave the beautiful parts of life.  Sunlight and laughter, friendship, flowers, and love.  Deep soul friendships where you can laugh together and cry together with equal devotion.  Love that withstands the test of time and weathers any storm.  The things that make the painful parts of life pale in comparison.  I’ve been walking in those painful parts of life for the last six months.  The part where the love I thought was forever failed me fantastically.  Where pain and tears were an everyday occurrence.  Where I tried desperately to see the sunshine through the rain.  So yes, I crave the beautiful parts of life where life isn’t so hard.  Where trust isn’t broken and dreams live to go on for another day.

In the spirit of that I am not going to dwell on what this weekend isn’t, the anniversary of the weekend I got engaged last year.  I’m going to celebrate what it is, the weekend my family grew by one more last year.  We got this little fur ball a year ago tomorrow!

He’s a little bit bigger now!  This picture doesn’t really show how big he is.  He can put his head on my kitchen table without trying!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, this weekend I’m going to celebrate the anniversary of Norris joining our family and celebrate my youngest son’s birthday and try to forget the rest.  Wishing you all a beautiful weekend full of light and love and laughter!

 

Godspeed,

Mollie <3

 

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In one fell swoop everything was different.  An instant.  That’s how long it takes for everything to change when a part of me I have been holding onto surrenders to God.  Today I stopped kicking and screaming as He tried to drag me away from something that wasn’t good for me.  Something that I wanted with every fiber of my being.  In a moment of clarity, ah there it was, SURRENDER.  Do you know what comes after surrender?  In that moment when darkness becomes light there is peace, lightness, calm.  There is a swelling of Spirit that leaves you so happy you could cry from the relief it brings as the stress you were under just melts away.  It is that moment of surrender that there is less of me and more of Him.

I know that after the surrender inevitably there will come an attack from the enemy, but I’m not worried.  If God is for me, who can be against me? (Romans 8:31)

I am going to enjoy this sweet moment of surrender while it lasts.  Then I am going to keep searching out those areas that I have been keeping hidden away and trying my best to surrender them to God.  I don’t know if it is possible to ever surrender them all.  After all there was only One who was perfect.  But that isn’t going to stop me from trying!

 

Godspeed,

Mollie <3

 

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I have always seen singleness as a burden of sorts.  I have often found it hard to be content during single seasons.  But it’s during these times when I feel like I’m waiting for something more to happen in my life that God imparts wisdom to me and cements in me the lessons He wants me to carry into the next seasons of my life.  It’s during one of these seasons that He told me I am a writer.  That He introduced me to the people who would become my biggest supporters, not just in writing, but as I walk through life in general.  And during this particular season of singleness He has been teaching me to focus in more on Him.  It is during this season, which I am really hoping is my last single season, that He is teaching me to walk by His side more completely.

So, even during these seasons that I sometimes feel are burdens I am trying to enjoy the time I have.  Last night I went on a one-on-one date with my oldest son to our town’s bed race.  Yes, you read that right and yes it is exactly what it sounds like.  In the grand tradition of small towns mine has it’s own character.  Only in my town do we celebrate the coming holiday season by racing beds on wheels through the middle of town!  It’s really kind of funny to watch!  Then it was home for pizza and hot chocolate with both my babies!

Let God fill you with all the tools you will need for the coming seasons of life and enjoy the time you have during the season you are walking through right now!
Godspeed,

Mollie <3

 

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